Community Guidelines
A few simple commitments help every Frand feel welcome, unhurried, and in control.
Effective September 21, 2026
Be genuine
Use your real first name and recent photos. Share honestly about the kind of friendship you want, without pretending to be someone else.
Keep it platonic and pressure-free
Hey Frands is for friendship. Respect boundaries, different response times, and a person's choice to pause or end a conversation. Never pressure someone to meet, reply, or share private details.
Choose kindness
Discrimination, harassment, threats, sexual content, scams, and unwanted promotion are not welcome. Disagreement is okay; demeaning or intimidating another person is not.
Protect privacy
Do not share another member's profile, photos, messages, location, or personal information outside Hey Frands without clear permission.
Speak up when something feels wrong
Use the Safety button to block or report. Blocking is immediate and private. Reports go to the moderation team for review, and good-faith reports never count against you.